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Healing with body energy

Dyana Bagby
Herald-Citizen Staff
Cookeville, TN  38501

With soothing music playing in the background, Beth Stapor cups her hands slightly above her daughter's face and concentrates silently.

She is doing Reiki (pronounced ray-kee), which, when translated literally means: rei ­ spiritually, or universally, guided; ki ­ life force energy.

"Like the North and South Poles that have energy flowing between them, it is the same with our bodies," Stapor, 48, explains. "Energy systems flow around us and when that energy is depleted, that's when we become out of balance, or off-center."

Our energy can be depleted for a number of reasons ­ loss of a job or divorce, injuries sustained in a car accident, cancer, or even the anxiety caused from moving to a new city, Stapor says.

And with Reiki, the technique of tapping into the universal energy that surrounds us all, that depleted energy can be restored to bring relief from emotional stress and even relief from physical pain, she states.

"Reiki can bring balance and energy ­ it's a technique for stress reduction and relaxation that allows everyone to tap into an unlimited supply of 'life force energy' to improve health and enhance the quality of life," she adds.

But, she stresses, Reiki is only a complement to medical care ­ it is not an alternative.

"I never recommend anyone give up medical treatment, but Reiki can assist it."

But, what is Reiki really?

Hard to define simply, it is using the God-consciousness called Rei that guides the life force called Ki, she said.

Ki is the same as the Chi in Chinese and is used by martial artists in their physical training and mental development; it is also used in meditative breathing exercises and is the nonphysical energy used by all healers. Ki is present all around us and can be accumulated and guided by the mind, Stapor says.

Those who practice Reiki have the option of either touching the person or not ­ Reiki is not the same as a massage, but is more of a gentle touch on certain parts of the body that affect certain systems, such as circulatory and respiratory systems.

You've heard of your aura ­ that energy field around you that projects the emotional state and being you are in? Think of Reiki as a massage of that aura using the positive energy of the world ­ it can knock out any kinks and knots in your own energy and bring peace to your body and mind.

Stapor herself learned about Reiki through a healing in 1994 after becoming seriously ill.

For seven months, she said, she went through a variety of medical tests but still suffered from depression, fatigue and impaired vision.

"Nobody could figure out what was wrong with me. I was tested for lupus, lyme's disease, multiple sclerosis ­ and the doctors couldn't determine why I was so ill."

During a visit to her chiropractor, she found a book on Reiki, read it, and decided to try it.

"I could feel my energy shifting and it was so powerful it broke my watch," she says of that first Reiki session. "And within a period of 24 hours I went practically from dying to total wellness. If the experience hadn't been that drastic, I probably wouldn't have believed it and also realized that some emotional stuff going on in my life was causing my illness."

A certified counselor and licensed professional counselor in Tennessee, Stapor worked as a counselor at Tennessee Tech University for six years and has also worked as an alcohol and drug counselor as well as an art teacher and preschool teacher.

But her love for Reiki has put her on another career path. Through studies and workshops and training, she is now a Reiki Master and has an office in downtown Cookeville on Broad St. just north of, and across the street from, the Courthouse, where she combines counseling with Reiki.

The ability to use Reiki is not taught in the usual sense, but rather is transferred to the student by the Reiki Master. Its use is not dependent on one's intellectual capacity or spiritual development and, therefore, is available to everyone, she explains.

"A Reiki 'master' is really just a teacher," she says. "People often think healing equals a cure, but it could also be relief from, say, difficulty in a relationship or even backaches and headaches caused by stress."

Stapor charges $30 for an hour session, or four sessions for $100, and also teaches and holds a Reiki healing group at her office on the third Tuesday of every month.

This is not a "New Age" practice, Stapor says ­ Reiki has been around for hundreds of years and she believes that as people more and more look to be responsible for themselves and their own health, they are seeking ways for self-healing.

Reiki is not a religion, she also stresses, but it does abide by the belief that we as living beings are a mind-body-spirit unity and that it is necessary to live and act in a way that promotes harmony with others, Stapor says.

How you think and feel affects your physical well-being, and vice-versa ­ the mind and the body and the spirit are all connected and must all be cared for, she says.

And which brings up the most important aspect of Reiki ­ you must be open to it or it will not work.

"Skeptics are a road block. You have to want to heal. I'm just here for the energy to flow through me into whomever is open to it."

Published Wednesday, August 26, 1998 12:11 PM CDT
 

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 Reiki Assists Cancer Recovery

During the past several months I have had the privilege to work with three remarkable people. Each of these people has been presented with one of life’s most feared diseases, cancer. They are indeed an inspiration in how they have faced the challenge. I have asked them to write in their own words their journey through cancer recovery and the part they felt that Reiki energy has played in their progress.

I first met David  in November of 1998. He had had a cancerous tumor removed from his neck and was beginning radiation treatment. Here is his story:

"At age 69, I relocated to Cookeville, Tennessee from Wisconsin. In August of 1998, I was recently divorced, had sold my home, and had moved to Tennessee. In September, I started having a stiff neck, it became progressively worse causing the muscle to bulge out. I went to a Chiropractor who told me he thought I had a tumor and referred me to my medical doctor, who in turn referred me to a surgeon. I was diagnosed with cancer of the lymph glands of my neck. I went through 2 surgeries having a radical neck reduction. I was then prescribed 30 radiation treatments for my face and neck. During this period of time I became acquainted with Beth Stapor. She gave me Reiki treatments. The people at the radiation center were so amazed at my attitude and how will I was surviving and enduring the radiation treatments. During December, Beth had to leave town for 2 weeks. During her absence I did not receive any Reiki treatments and I went to ground zero. The pain was excruciating to the point I could no longer function and I had to stop receiving the radiation treatments. As soon as Beth returned, she began extensive Reiki treatments on me. During the first week I returned to my old self, physically, spiritually, and emotionally. During this period of time I realized the wonderful blessings and gift that Beth was able to give me through Reiki. I completed the 30 radiation treatments and began a course of heavy-duty chemotherapy. The Oncologist was very surprised at my blood counts during chemotherapy, as they stayed so high and consistent. I feel what has been taking place in my life has been a joy to me even with all the pain. I’m more spiritually aware and more grateful of my surroundings than ever before. I feel in a great part I owe this to the Reiki treatments received from Beth."

The second person I worked with was Elizabeth McDonald, who has been a friend for over 10 years. Here is her story:

"Prior to January of this year, I held a public relations position and was a part-time law student. In January, I was diagnosed with breast cancer and had two surgeries. In February, I had another surgery and began six months of chemotherapy. During that time, I also participated in Reiki sessions with Beth Stapor once a week. For three and a half months, I continued my law school classes, walked five days a week, and saw Beth once a week. My blood counts were so stable that the nurse who administered the chemotherapy commented on several occasions that my blood counts were higher than hers were. Except for the one week that followed each chemotherapy treatment, my energy level remained high. Sometime around the fourth month of chemotherapy, Beth was out of town for three weeks. During that time, my red blood cell count dropped and my energy level dropped considerably. It took three epogen shots and almost two months for my energy level to recover. I just had my last chemotherapy treatment. I continue to see Beth and expect to be able to return to my normal activities by the time school starts on August 28, 1999. During this past seven months, I have spent time praying and know that many people have prayed for me. I have also had the love and support of my family and friends. While I do not have any hard date about Reiki, I know that I looked forward to my sessions with Beth and my body responded positively to the Reiki sessions. I have been told that low

blood counts are expected during chemotherapy and I think it is notable that my blood counts remained strong until I missed three weeks of my Reiki sessions with Beth. I feel blessed to have received love and care from Beth, not only though the Reiki energy, but also from her friendship."

The third person I have been working with is Earl Hutchinson. Earl’s wife is a close friend of mine and a student of Reiki. When he was going in for his surgery I offered to come and give him Reiki before and after surgery. That was February 9th, 1999. Here is his story:

"My six month bout with prostate cancer brought me my first experience with Reiki. Although important factors in the successful treatment of this cancer were my excellent health and the ever present health care and love of my wife, Olivia, I cannot discount the importance of the Reiki treatment of Reiki Master Beth Simmons Stapor. Beth pledged Reiki treatments after every surgery (5 total) and at least once a week during the recovery period. So far that is almost 50 one-hour treatments. With the removal of the prostate, the colon was nicked and the surgery lengthened to four and one half-hours. Beth greeted my awakening with Reiki and a soothing presence. I experienced no nausea or vomiting from the general anesthesia administered (a reaction expected by the doctors) and no itching or other reaction usually accompanying the spinal epidural block. Although morphine was on hand for pain if I felt it necessary, I never felt so uncomfortable that I switched it on. My fear of the pain that would accompany coughing never materialized. This, despite the fact that I had 33 clamps in the incision which extended from the naval to the pelvic bone. The doctors and nurses in attendance were amazed at my lack of the usual symptoms accompanying this serious surgical operation. My temperature and vital signs stayed normal. What made this operation even more incredible for the medical doctors and nurses was that I am 72 years old.

With the removal of the catheter on July 9th, I expected a period of incontinence, which is experienced by an overwhelming majority of prostate cancer patients. This can go on for several weeks to forever. With the exception of a couple of times in the first week, I have had no incontinence, almost unheard of in my situation. I have completed my final surgery, which had returned me to the shape I was in prior to February, minus the cancer. I am certain that my healthy lifestyle, and the care of my wife were major factors in carrying through this six month ordeal, but the importance of Reiki, I believe cannot be underestimated. It played an important role in helping to maintain my vital signs, eliminate pain, nausea and vomiting, keeping incontinence from occurring, and finally battling the inevitable depression that accompanies such a roller-coaster ride through this illness.

As you can see, these are remarkable people. It has been a blessing to have the opportunity to work with each of them and to see how Reiki has complemented traditional medicine for healing in their lives.

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Reiki Complements Traditional Medicine

By: Beth Simmons Stapor, Ph.D. Reiki Master

As Reiki (spiritually guided life force energy) is becoming more known, people are often looking for a way to define its place in relation to traditional medical treatment. In the past I have looked at Reiki as an alternative healing technique. Several events in the past 3 months have led me to rethink my definition. I now am describing Reiki’s place with traditional medicine as complimentary. I have seen first hand on three occasions how Reiki has assisted traditional treatment to work for the highest good for the "patient".

I recently was invited to do a presentation about Reiki to an assisted living nursing home, Morningside. The residents of Morningside that I worked with range in age from mid fifties to ninety-two years old. Each of the residents has individual health challenges. All deal with the fact that they can no longer take care of themselves at home. Reiki assisted in this situation from a psychological viewpoint. After receiving Reiki, the program director noted that each person had a much more positive attitude toward her living situation. One resident, who was known to always be complaining, left her Reiki session saying how good she felt and that she loved everyone there. Another resident commented that after the Reiki session she felt like she could fight all the battles of her life. In this situation Reiki is assisting the residents to be more at peace living at Morningside. I am going back once a month to give half hour Reiki sessions. The residents continue to show a more positive outlook after each session.

The second situation involves using Reiki to assist in radiation treatments. David had surgery to remove a cancerous tumor in his neck in October. He began radiation treatments in November. The doctors initially gave him six months to live. When I began to treat David his energy level was very low, he was feeling defeated by his body and life. I had him come for sessions three times a week, directly after his radiation treatments. As time went on, his energy level became stronger and his body much more balanced. I had to be away from town for two weeks in the middle of the cycle of radiation. When I returned, David told me he had to stop the radiation sessions while I was gone. He said that without the Reiki after the treatments, he had a lack of energy and was developing side effects to the radiation treatments. We began regular Reiki sessions, and within a few days he was able to return to radiation and complete the cycle. His doctors are amazed at the speed of his healing and lack of side effects to the radiation treatments. David tells them it is because of the Reiki that he has such a high level of energy. In his most recent visit to the doctor, David was told that his life expectancy had been greatly improved by his attitude and treatments he had been receiving.

The final situation involves using Reiki to assist before and after surgery. E.H. was having prostate cancer surgery. He admits to having a low threshold for pain. I arrived at the hospital the morning of his surgery and began to give him Reiki. I worked with him for 1-½ hours prior to surgery. He remained calm and relaxed. He easily entered surgery. I was in him room when he returned from the recovery room. Complications during his surgery turned a 2-½ hour procedure into a 5-hour surgery. I gave him Reiki for about 2 hours. He had no side effects from the anesthesia, and was alert and coherently holding a conversation with me the entire time. I continued to go every day to give him 1-2 hours of Reiki. According to the medical staff, expected complications from this type of surgery include itching, vomiting, pain, and an elevated temperature. E.H. had none of these symptoms. Most everyone who walks in his room comments on how wonderful he looks. He continues to improve daily, has not had to deal with pain, and does not hesitate to tell anyone who walks in the room the that the reason he has done so well is the Reiki. It has been a team effort, the hospital staff have been providing excellent care and the Reiki has complimented that care every step of the way.

I constantly feel blessed that I have been called to assist people in having a better quality of life. I know that a force much greater than I is there guiding me every step of the way. My hope is that the medical community will continue to become open to complimentary techniques of healing, for when we work together we create a place of healing for the highest good of the "patient".

Reiki Master Beth Simmons Stapor can be reached at 931-979-4178.

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The Reiki Counselor

As Reiki becomes known in the mainstream of health care, more and more professionals are combining Reiki training with their academic backgrounds for better care of their clients. Reiki is being seen more and more as a complement to "traditional" forms of health care. I am known in the academic/counseling arena as Dr. Beth Stapor. I am a psychologist (Ph.D.), Nationally Certified Counselor (NCC) and a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC). My vocation and passion is Reiki. I have been working as a Reiki Practitioner for over 5 years, teaching as a Reiki Master for over 3 years, and am a Senior Licensed Teacher with the International Center for Reiki Training.

Over the past year, I have had more and more students taking my classes whose backgrounds are in the counseling profession. I have found that combining Reiki with counseling or counseling with Reiki has very positive results. From the perspective of a counselor, Reiki helps me by providing a counseling office that welcomes the client with positive energy. My training in Reiki makes me more attuned to the client’s problem areas. I know that each chakra system focuses on certain key issues that can help a client heal. I teach in my Reiki class simple key words for each chakra that guide a client to go within himself or herself and tune into what they need to know for their healing. The key words are:

Root Chakra: survival and grounding; Sacral Chakra: sexuality issues and creativity; Solar Plexus: ego, self-esteem, and personal power (coming from the strength within yourself to say I will or I choose this for me); Heart: feelings and emotions; Throat: communication, being able to say what you need to say; Brow: intuition and perception (how do you look at the different situations in your life); Crown Chakra: spirituality, your connection to your higher power. I am observant of the client’s body language, which can give clues to chakras that are out of balance. For example, the client who has their arms crossed in front of their stomach might indicate the need to protect themselves from life or the client who coughs, or clears their throat a lot might indicate there is something that is choking them in their life or something they are not saying.

My intuitive self, that has developed as a result of my Reiki training, often helps me pick up on the underlying causes of client problem areas or often questions spontaneously come to me to ask the client that facilitate their bringing to mind information they need for their healing. I find that I am more nurturing, less judgmental, and more empowering of my clients than I was as a non-reiki trained counselor.

From the perspective of a Reiki Practitioner, the counseling background is a real asset. It is not ethical for a Reiki Practitioner to diagnose medical conditions or to provide counseling to a client unless they are licensed to do so in their state of residence. When a client is involved in emotional healing during a session the Reiki Practitioner can provide a safe place for the feelings and emotions to come forward. They can use the simple key words for each chakra to ask the client questions for their inner knowing. Sample questions for each chakra might be: Root: Is there some place in your life where you are struggling with survival such as your job or relationship? Is there something in your life that is blocking you from moving forward? Sacral: Is something blocking your creativity? Are there areas in your life where you are having problems with sexual issues? Solar Plexus: Are there areas in your life where you feel that you have a low self-esteem? Do you have trouble standing up for yourself? Heart: Looking at love of self and others, what feelings or emotions are blocking your healing. Throat: Is there something that you need to be saying that you are unable to say? Are you having difficulty trusting in your life?

Brow: Could there be another way of looking your situation? Crown: How connected do you feel to your spiritual source and the universe?

It is important to remember that unless you are licensed as a counselor, you can be a tour guide by asking questions, but you should always refer to a professional if you think your client needs psychological counseling. If you are a trained counseling professional, it can be a real blessing to your clients. As you do Reiki on them and they bring up issues, emotions, and feelings, you are able to use your counseling training to assist them as you would in a personal counseling session with the gift of the Reiki energy helping them to heal.

My clients benefit from my training both as a counselor and as a Reiki Practitioner. I know that I am much more in tune with my client’s needs as a Reiki Practitioner. There is hardly a Reiki session that I am involved in that does not in some way include using my counseling training. When I have a client in my office specifically for personal counseling, I know that my training as a Reiki Professional provides a nurturing place of unconditional acceptance which facilitates their progress to dealing with the issues they came into counseling to heal.

It is my hope that more and more counselors, psychologists, and social workers will have Reiki training. There is not a week that goes by that I am not amazed at how clients are able to heal through the combination

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